
You might have seen in my Five Frugal things post last week that I taught Miss Frugal how to mend a hole in her trousers. This is something I thought would be the first thing they would teach in her sewing lessons at school but no, she can cover a notebook in fabric like a pro but they haven’t got to the part where they learn actual life skills yet!
It seems a bit like basic skills that our grandparents took for granted have been forgotten about. Things like sewing can be looked at as being a bit old fashioned which is a real shame because it can save money and give you a feeling of achievement that you’ve done something yourself.
In fact, there’s a lot we can learn from the older generation….
- You wouldn’t catch my Nana paying someone to mow her lawn for her or to do all her ironing. Not that I’m against paying someone to help you with these jobs but you must admit that it’s not cheap.
- Before ready meals and ready made sauces were popular, cooking from scratch was a necessity and my Nana could stretch her meals like you wouldn’t believe. A ham joint would do a gorgeous meal with Yorkshire puds, a lovely soup with dumplings for tea at least another two nights and sandwiches for lunches.
- My Nana always used to buy local produce from the smaller shops in her town and I don’t think she went in a supermarket in her life. She liked to visit the butchers, the greengrocers and the fishmongers for the freshest food and the best deals. There was no waste as she bought what she needed and nothing else.
- Make do and Mend is a philosophy that I think lots of us have forgotten. It’s not only a case of sewing up a hole or sewing back on a button but what about if you get a hole in something? I remember my Mam patching the holey knees in my trousers with some cute iron on rainbow patches whereas these days lots of us would just throw them out and replace them.
- Even if tumble driers had been invented back then (no idea if they were or not) my Nan wouldn’t have had one. She always used to dry her washing on the line if it was possible and I remember visiting her and having to run out to bring it in when the rain started and then we put it back out again after it had cleared.
- Most things were bought using cash now which I expect made it much easier to budget but also gave more opportunity for bartering and getting better deals. I don’t think my Nana ever had a credit card and she was brought up believing that if she wanted something, she had to save for it.
- I remember my Nana had an old, old TV that my Dad was always offering to replace but she said no every single time he mentioned it because the one she had did the job. And it did. How often have you replaced something that’s working perfectly well just to upgrade to the next model? I know I have.
- I love the feeling of community where my Nana used to live with neighbours who had known each other for years popped in and out. The man from down the road would do the odd job for her and in return, she’d cook him a meal. I love the idea of helping people out and getting something back in return like this.
- Growing your own fruit and vegetables seems to be getting more popular and even the smallest of spaces can be turned into a vegetable patch. We’re not great with growing things but we try. 😉
- Instead of working your way through all the box sets on Netflix why not find a hobby that will help you in some way. Learn crochet, knitting or sewing and then make something with your new skills – to sell, keep or even give away.
And for more inspiration on how our grandparents used to save money then have a look at the lovely Becky’s video about how her Grandfather used to save money….
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What a lovely post, I do feel rather wasteful now though.
We are always saying we should learn a skill instead of watching TV, but we're so tired it's hard to do much else.
Ohhh I love this post, gave me all the feels. Our grannies did get a lot of things right, didn't they? Even my Mum did loads of these – I wish I could sew and mend things as well as she can.
This post certainly brought back some memories from my childhood. My grandma was very frugal and yes, things like unless it's broke don't fix it (or replace it!) were common place and washing was always on the line! Sim x
My Nan had a savings tin that was divided into lots of different compartments – for bills, mortgage, holidays, etc – I do that but instead of tins have a few different back accounts so I can keep track of what money is for what more easily – and dont dip into my savings by accident!
I love these – especially the buying local one, give a real sense of community too!
I think one of the things I have picked up from my grandparents is not wasting food. They were so relaxed with us, unless we had any food left on our plates! 😀 Great advice as always! 🙂
Such a lot of sensible advice – only buy what you need, make do and mend, only buy what you can afford. I'm really grateful for the sewing lessons I had at school – not that I am any good but I can at least sew up a hem or re-do a button. I wish we had been given cookery lessons – thankfully my mum was a good cook and teacher. I am doing far less shopping at the supermarket now. There's a great farm shop opened near me with a fab butchery. It does take more time, but it's worth it.
It is funny how old school budgeting skills have come back to the fore and I agree with so many of those points and do them myself. The food one is a really great tip and I have become quite good at making a meal last for two or three days, it saves time and money
When I was Miss Frugal’s age, creeping up on 10years now, yikes, our textiles classes were the same. Yes, you can make a pointless cover but god forbid we teach you how to do a basic stitch that is useful – I’m lucky that both my late grandma and my mum taught me how to sew. Food tech taught us how to make rice salad, savoury scones and bread rolls – of course the rolls were made from pre-rolled dough because there wasn’t enough time!
with regards to knitting instead of watching Neflix…I may have taught myself how to knit last year whilst watching Netflix haha!
Prob not as old as your grandma but I do a lot of these things like habit! Am in my 50s so we did Home Economics at school and were taught basic sewing and cooking skills which have been a help all through family life. Heck my son and his girlfriend bring things to me to patch up and mend at times which is hilarious when I think about it. Where might all these skills end up in a few generations time if people dont pass them on or people dont want to know about them? Sad thought. We will be paying a few "professionals" to do them for us? Who knows. Btw have a tumble drier but use it frugally and hang out washing and watch the weather forecast before starting lots of washing.